Puerto Rico. The sun setting, inside the portico, no flash. The air is heavy, a tropical breeze. The coqui (ko-kee’) song is rising. The Stingray awaits…

Puerto Rico. The sun setting, inside the portico, no flash. The air is heavy, a tropical breeze. The coqui (ko-kee’) song is rising. The Stingray awaits…

Jovan, Stormie, Tara, me, Stephanie and Tredessa at The Heaven Fest Appreciation Dinner (where I had the worst hair night, but a tremendous amount of fun in my Norma Kamali dress doing my rather-comedic, if I do say so, trivia observations about HF).
I love my girls. I am blessed by them, in spite of the fact that they tell me I am like Diane Keaton in “Because I Said So,” with which I must totally and vehemently disagree. I may intrude a bit, but I am not as prudish and uptight! And I wouldn’t wear those flouncy 50’s dresses, because I am more of a 40’s woman. We do both make cakes, though.

These are My Little Women. And it is such an honor to work with them in all things life, love, family and ministry. Heaven Fest has been one of my favorite things ever because we do it together.
Milly: I’m gonna be just like you mom.
Johnny: Once I saw that you were a woman with profound static cling, I wanted to be that force around you…I love that when I breathe you in you smell like cake batter. And I love that you have this insane way of talking in circles that makes perfect sense…I love your eyes. I even love…your mother.
*Thanks to Luke Bodley for getting us in frame. We thought there was no way in Hades this could turn out because of the way he lunged at us just as he counted to three. But, wow, Luke. You did it.
Stephanie and Tristan have been married since December 27, 2001. I told them, having been a retail store manager at the time of their wedding (they got engaged and planned a wedding during THE most brutal 4 retail months in an effort, I was quite certain at the time, designed to kill me), that I would eventually forgive them for their timing. And I can truly say I have.

Tristan told us he could remember church people (at The Assembly of God in Fort Wayne, IN) saying things like, “There go those red-headed Kelley kids,” about him and his sister when they were little. Maybe they knew, or maybe they were unaware, but that little Kelley kid grew up to be an awesome man. I am so honored to call him son, so glad he married my daughter and is a daddy to my grand-bebes.
And the kid can play the drums. Geesh. And just about every known instrument in the world.

Now I have my own little red-headed Kelley kids to chase after. Ahhhh. The grandbebes.

Gavin is 6. He is in the first grade now and if he has his way will never. miss. one. day. of. school. Not ever.

Guinivere is 4 and knows a secret at all times. Listen closely and you may get to hear it.

Gemma is 2 and so delightfully good at it!

Stephanie and Tristan are a colorful couple. He is simply the most amazingly intelligent person in the fam. We all call Tris about everything. Everything! And he knows everything about, well, everything. He works at Dare2Share by day and teaches music lessons (need some?) and does consulting and building websites in his “spare” time.

Stephanie is hanging at home with the kids these days, planning future trips and vacations to New York and London, their favorite cities. She is exquisite and unique. She is passionate, but so level and cool. She is a suburban mommy with big-city taste. She is so good at mothering these three, I wish I’d have had her as an example back in the day. And she loves Tristan.

Tredessa and Stormie did this photo shoot for Steph this summer (a delayed birthday present).

I think they are a beautiful and dazzling family and I am certain there is no prejudice in that!

all photos taken in Denver
A year and a half ago Elise moved to Denver. I don’t think her parents, my brother Joe and his wife, Robin, of Aberdeen, were as excited as we were because she’d been in Hawaii with YWAM for over 2 years. But we were very happy to have her near.
Elise smiles…these photos swiped from her Facebook…
And Elise has been a joy to have (“ketchup” with her here). She roomed with a childhood friend and about 17 other college girls most of the time and has been crashing at Stef and Wrex’s for the summer, but she infused herself into the life of our family from the start. We’d never lived near Elise, only seeing her at family reunions and occasional visits and the veeeeeeeeeery rare photo her parents might send, but it was as if, when she arrived, we’d always been together.
Elise is taking a leadership position, once again, at the YWAM base in Hawaii until the end of the year and then moving back to Aberdeen to help develop her local church mission focus (where her daddy is the pastor). She is leaving us and Colorado will be a little poorer for her absence. Colorado will be losing a truly genuine, loving and sweet young woman with an easy laugh, a room-lighting smile and a helpful spirit. We will lose a girl who loves God and is devoted to family. Little children all over the metro area will miss her (she has nanny-ed for several families during her time here and her 2nd cousins, my grandbabies, all find her quite delightful).
“Engaging” is the perfect one-word description of Elise. If you have ever had a conversation with her, you know that she speaks very pronouncedly with a slight lift/lilt to the end of all sentences. Every story, every word, every sentence becomes, yet stopping just before, a possible question or response-requirer. Brother Joe told me at reunion that she learned when she was four to be able to talk for 47 straight minutes in a way that simply made it impossible for the hearer to disengage. He said it had become a lifelong art for Elise – the ability to keep you in because you might be called upon to answer…but then again, you might not. So, she has this beautiful set of pearly whites and the full, shapely Moslander lips and she is simply fascinating to listen to and to watch. And every word she says is all the more interesting because it comes from her.
Elise with the orphans of Honduras
I will miss you, Elise. I will miss your enthusiasm about life and your commitment to family. I will miss your loving ways and involvement in our lives. I will miss your cool sense of fashion and your heart for missions and travel. I will miss having the treasure of my brother Joe’s heart here close to me. I will miss your love for my grandchildren and the happy dances you do with them at family gatherings. I will miss your Holy-Spirit-given Gift of Faith and your childlike belief that everything will work out (and hasn’t God proven Himself to you time and again!?). Never give up that kind of trust in the Lord, Elise – it will serve you well.
I don’t think Aberdeen is big enough to contain you, because you have sufficient personality to fill so much more, but that is probably why God has called you to the world and given you such love for people. And today, knowing you are leaving and knowing our sun is losing some brightness, I just thank God for the time He allowed you to be here blessing our lives and infusing our family with joy and delight. We will cherish it always. We will treasure the memories and never forget you were sent as a gift for this time.
I am so proud I can say you are my niece. You are a beautiful girl, both inside and out. I am so proud for the choices you are making in your life. I am so pleased to see you follow the call of God on your life. You are loved and you will be so very much missed! Be blessed when you go out and when you come in. Be blessed in the country and in the city. May your enemies be defeated and may everything you put your hand to prosper and be blessed!
I love you, girl, and I miss you already…Aunt Jeanie
NOTE TO SELF: Learn to smile with total abandon like Elise does. Can that be learned or will it require surgery?
Up Boulder Canyon, just off to the left side a few miles up the mountain, is a “rock pile” sitting above the rushing river. We affectionately call it Moslander Mountain. Here are 27 us (of the 35 total).

pictured below: Jovan and Averi, the family climbing and exploring

pictured below: a rite of passage for the men is to get to the peak; the 2 on the right are both DP from different cameras.

pictured below: Robin with her kids, Elise and Corbin; “the boys” Gerron, Dan and Joe

pictured below: the water was a little too crazy to wade in that day




Psalm 95.4 NIV “In His hands are the depth of the earth, and the mountain peaks belong to Him.”
I am family-rich.
See a more detailed report about our recent reunion here: The Moslander Family Reunion…

We are family
I got all my sisters with me
We are family
Get up ev’rybody and sing
The sister I grew up with, aka the sister born into my family (as opposed to marrying one of the brothers), aka Tamera Dawn, aka “Tami.” She is the bottle of bubbles at the party, the the whipped cream and the cherry on top of family gatherings. She is the adored Aunt Tami, my little sister, and her husband, Uncle Gerron-the great one.


Everybody can see we’re together
As we walk on by
(FLY!) and we fly just like birds of a feather
I won’t tell no lie
(ALL!) all of the people around us they say
Can they be that close
Just let me state for the record
We’re giving love in a family dose

We are family
I got all my sisters with me

We are family
Get up ev’rybody and sing

Living life is fun and we’ve just begun
To get our share of the world’s delights
(HIGH!) high hopes we have for the future
And our goal’s in sight
(WE!) no we don’t get depressed
Here’s what we call our golden rule
Have faith in God and the things He’ll do
You won’t go wrong
This is our family truth

We are family
I got all my sisters with me
We are family
Get up ev’rybody and sing
We gathered, we ate, we talked and sang and took pictures. We worshiped together as a family. We prayed for each other, we cried sometimes and laughed a lot. We ate some more. We splashed in the pool and sunned a little. We teased each other and told silly stories of affection. We ate some more. We golfed. We danced and celebrated Joe and Robin’s 25th anniversary. In short, we just hung out together~with love. It was Ross the Boss, Mrs. Moss and Jeanie, Joey, Timmy, Tami and Danny. Er, no…Tim didn’t make it… :[…sad face.
Lyrics to We are Family, by Sister Sledge

Stefanie and Wrex Phipps are just such generous and giving people. They let us crash their farmland and just became a part of the Moslander family from far and wide as we celebrated and re-unioned together last week. Thank-you sooooooooo much, Stef and Wrex. EVERYBODY fell in love with you just like we did when we first met you. You made us so welcomed and were just a part of us! We love you and will never forget the great time at the farm! pictured: the farmer and his drop-dead gorgeous wife; Stef and Dessa

Aunt Tami-finger licking good; Uncle Gerron saying, “Down boy-Tami is mine.”; Elise-the-Niece and me
Austin feeding the calf; Dawn and Robin, my beautiful sisters-in-law…and two of the godliest women I know
Goat says, “Really. What do you city folk want?”; Cowboy Wrex bringing the horses; Hunter saddled up

Tredessa swinging the rope and getting her steer; Averi taking control of the bull

Cousin Corbin roping; Gemma bull-riding; the boys being little cow-pokes

My mom has always, and I mean always been a cowgirl at heart!; Tristan with his kiddies; Guini and the goat
Tredessa lassos her cousin Corbin (certainly he deserved it for one ornery thing or another he said); the little ones lasso-ing; Dave and his food
Hunter and his corn-on-the-cob; Averi and hers; Gavin and the goat
Corbin; Rocky; Uncle Joe playing horseshoes and losing (to his 71-year-old mother)
Uncle Gerron with Jordan and Austin; my mama roping again; Stephanie and Tristan
Uncle Gerron and Uncle Joe; Rocky and Corbin shooting…plastic bottles and stuff

The bonfire Wrex built; Aunt Dawn and Guini; Wrex and Austin stoking the fire

The boys roasting marshmallows; Guini and Hunter walking down the road as the sun disappeared; a beautiful summer evening with family around the fire
above: Our hostess Stef with sisters Tara and Tredessa; Aunt Dawn and Guini doing sparklers
below: Uncle Gerron is loved by animals and toddlers alike – here with GemGem; Hunter and his fireworks

It was an unforgettable evening of love on the farm with the fam.
See a more complete report here: The Moslander Family Reunion…
pictured: At Mile High Flea Market ~ Jordan, the semi-pro football player; Uncle Gerron innocently shopping for the right pair of jeans; Aunt Tami with Jovan and Averi
pictured: me (what the heck with the hair??) and my mama; cousins Tara & Elise; Gerron and Dave, the bro-in-laws (some people think Tami and I married brothers becuz we both went for the hot Latino types)
pictured below: Elise with her daddy and my brother, Joe; Elise at the jeans shop, where unbeknownst to her, there was the inevitable Moslander-booty discussion happening; Tara and her Aunt Tami discussing tank tops
We gathered, we ate, we Mile-Hi flea marketed, we cooked out at the farm (Stef and Wrex~ Thank-you so much for an unforgettable evening) and roped “cattle” and rode horses and played horseshoes. We bonfired and sang, we talked and talked and took pictures. We prayed. We cried sometimes and laughed a lot. We ate some more. Robin cookie-ed us silly! We shot off fireworks (which may or may not have been illegal from over the Wyoming state line) and BBs and air-soft pellets. Grandma (or great-grandma) Moslander whipped everybody’s butts in horseshoes at the age of 71-years-young! Seriously? If she would color her hair, you’d only think she was 54 by her activity-level. She also perfected her roping skills after the lesson from Cowboy Wrex. The woman kills! We ate some more. In short, we just hung out together.

pictured: Dawn and Dan and Grandpa Moslander relaxing; the little ones on the horses; praying before the big steak and corn on the cob and all the other delish food meal

pictured: Aunt Tami can truly talk to the animals!

pictured: a horse, of course; Tristan and Gemma riding; Rocky and Guini riding into the sunset

pictured: Grandpa Moslander reverted to his farm days as a kid and spent a lot of time feeding the mama goat and the albino calf

pictured: Aunt Tami with her new friend the horse; Guini and Hunter riding by; Grandma Moslander winning at horseshoes

pictured: Uncle Joe and Grandpa visiting between songs; the calf
The giant 3 1/2 foot snake that almost ran right over my feet! Yes. It was a giant!
Psalm 34.11 “Come, my children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD.”
They began arriving at about 3 pm on Friday, by plane and by car. 6 o’clock there were more. 8:30 pm we increased. Then more and by 10:30 pm, as Dave and I stood outside in the backyard and looked back at our house, fully lit up and fairly burgeoning with the exuberant noise of love and hugs and kisses and “Oh, you’ve gotten taller,” and “This is Averi!?” and “I am so glad you could come,” we smiled. It was loud and it was sweet and we were so thankful to have everyone together for a few days.
pictured below: an impromtu baseball game in Nederland; horseback riding at the farm; my little sister talked me into some weird face; the nieces with Aunt Tami ~ Stephanie, Elise, Auntie, Tredessa, Jovan, Stormie, Tara



I am the oldest of 5 children born to Ross and Norma Moslander. We are blessed to still have our parents with us. They came from Springfield, MO, where, for the second time, they are trying to ditch retirement and are looking for a pastorate. Anyone want a roomy house in Springfield? pictured: my dad with the 4 originals who were here at church on Sunday morning ~ Dan, Joe, me and Tami; both my parents with their grandchildren and great-grand-children in Nederland

My brother Joe and his wife, Robin, came, bringing Corbin-their-youngest with them, joining niece-Elise, who has resided with us here in Colorado for the past year and a half. Two of their kids couldn’t make it, but we were glad they came all the way from Aberdeen, SD, where their church just held a dedication for their new facilities. pictured: Robin talking to dad during the bonfire; Robin and Joe dancing in celebration of their 25th anniversary, the rest of us dancing, too; the fam ~ Joe and Robin with Corbin and Elise
Tim and his family from Butte didn’t make it this year and we were very sad about that, but we plan to make him really sorry by super-imposing him into photos from some old 1970s pics we have of him. That’ll teach him. Hehehehe…evil laughing.

My sister, Tami, so energetic and lively, and her husband came from Corbin, Kentucky (youth pastors by day). Gerron-the-husband fancies himself “the great one.” They are adored by the nieces and nephews and are both natural born animal-whisperers. pictured: T & G at the Mile High Flea Market; later that day at the farm, charming the animals

My youngest brother, Dan and his wife Dawn (we have known her since she was 14 years old!) got to come from Hobart, IN (very near Chicago) and brought 2 of their 3 handsome sons, a beautiful family. pictured: Dawn and Dan on the patio one fine summer evening; Dan and Dawn’s youngest son, Austin, Joe and Robin’s son, Corbin, and Dan and Dawn’s firstborn, Jordan (a semi-pro football player) at the flea market.
We gathered, we ate, we Mile-Hi flea marketed, we cooked out at the farm (Stef and Wrex? Thank-you so much for an unforgettable evening) and roped “cattle” and rode horses and played horseshoes. We bonfired and sang, we talked and talked and took pictures. We worshiped at church together and on the patio as a family. Dad told how we got our spiritual start, about his salvation and baptism of the Holy Spirit. He preached it up. We prayed for each other, we cried sometimes and laughed a lot. We ate some more. Robin cookie-ed us silly! She brought vats of her unbelievably-delicious cookies (peanut butter, chocolate chip, monster, and oatmeal raisin) omygosh - truly, Mrs, Fields – watch out! We celebrated Father’s Day late and floated down the Platte River (how are there no pictures of this??!?…especially of Corbin trying to float on a shark and it nearly taking him under as he tried to swim to shore!? Hahaha!). We splashed in the pool and sunned a little. We shot off fireworks (which may or may not have been illegal from over the Wyoming state line) and BBs and air-soft pellets. We ate some more. We golfed. Some of us (*ahem) did all-night video game parties at Rocky and Jovan’s. We took a picture on what is affectionately known to us as “Moslander Mountain” up Boulder Canyon (since we photographed ourselves there on our very first reunion in 1995). We picnicked in Nederland and played wiffle ball. Did I mention there was food? We came back down the mountain and celebrated Joe and Robin’s 25th anniversary with a dance (how did Dan get so good at that Cha Cha Slide number?…Is it because he is a high school teacher??). There was coffee in the shade on delectibly cool mornings and rhubarb dessert everyone wants the recipe for (Stormie!). In short, we just hung out together.
The weather was positively perfect: sunny all day, but not unbearably hot. Sweet summer evenings outside. God even held the mosquitos at bay for us. It was seriously perfect. All the time. And romantic lights twinkling around the yard. It was like, for these precious few days, we were all there, together, safe and secure and all was right with the world.
I am so thankful that my children not only choose to participate in the Moslander-Family-Reunions, but they are catalysts for them. They want them to keep happening. They plan for them. They help me with them. They love to spend time with their grandparents and aunts and uncles and cousins. They participate in every way (even though it can be hard with young ‘uns), and help with the food and just generally make me so very proud to call them my kids.
Wednesday afternoon at about 3:00, 5 days after it all began, mom and dad, who’d been the first to arrive, were the last to leave. And my heart is full of together memories, for the moments we shared. We’ll do it again in 2010 and much will have changed, but the love in my heart for these people will remain…pictured: mom and dad with Elise and with Tara and Hunter on the “good-bye” porch; and below in the yard with the sign and appropriately sad faces

I miss them already…Jeanie
NOTE TO SELF: Am I blessed with a godly heritage, or what??

My mom and dad are arriving late afternoon! Yaaaaaaaay! Oh, and my brother, Joe, and his amazing wife and their youngest, and my sister, Tami, and her man and my youngest brother, Dan, and his beautiful wife and 2 of their “boys” they are coming, too! However, Zach flew back to Montana to hang with my brother Tim and his mom and brothers, who, boohoo, can’t come. It is kind of our Moslander-family reunion.
So we will increase, for the next few days, from the usual 17, minus 1, plus 11. 17-1+11=27.
But we also get to really initiate Stef and Wrex into the fam!
My mom used to sign the Christmas cards: Love, Ross the Boss, Mrs. Moss and all the Little Landers. So, it is that bunch, plus our lovers and the fruit of our love. And some of our fruit have now married and produced a new crop, if you know what I mean.
There will be pictures.
images above, Reunion ‘05; reunion ‘07