“Most women in this world pray and cry in their sleep for just one small part of what you’ve got, so that they can find what all women need – what you need, Maria.  A man you can look at in the daytime, a man you can love like a woman, and have children by, grow old with, share joys and sorrows, sex and failures.  You’ve got to make up your mind.”  Humphrey Bogart as Harry Dawes in “The Barefoot Contessa (1954) to Ava Gardner as Spanish sex symbol Maria Vargas